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David John Mitchell Obituary
David, our beloved husband, father, grandfather, brother, and uncle has left us.
David grew up in Cobourg, a block from the beach where he spent much of his
childhood. He excelled at school and credited his high school chemistry teacher
with igniting his love of chemistry, as he and the other students were given free
rein in the lab after school to conduct experiments – an unheard of freedom in
these times.
David pursued his undergrad and Master’s degrees in chemistry at the University
of Waterloo, where he lived at the Dag Hammarskjold Cooperative Residence
(notorious for food fights in the cafeteria and all-night bridge games.) He met
many like-minded souls there who would become friends for life, including firstyear
roommate Bill Beck. It was also there that he met his wife Judy, whom he
affectionately dubbed “Saint Jude” (the Patron Saint of Hopeless Causes) – a
clever play on words that rang very true.
For Jude, it was love at first sight – David was tall, dark, handsome, and very
funny. Through their combined force of will, together they were able to share the
decades of celebratory moments and challenges that life would offer. Their first
challenge was a 3 ½ month backpacking trip around Europe a year after they met,
on a budget of $5/day each: most nights were spent at youth hostels, but some
nights were spent on beaches (Venice and Crete) or in farmer’s fields (Greece) to
save money. The trip was a true test of their relationship and the adventure of a
lifetime.
They moved to Kingston in 1976 for David to attend Queen’s University, where he
completed a Ph.D. in theoretical chemistry. He was hired at DuPont as a research
chemist and remained there until his retirement in 2013. His colleagues at DuPont
became his best friends and he enjoyed their golf trips to PEI and BC, as well as
playing bridge, poker, and snooker and gathering weekly at the Loyal Oarsman
pub.
David was an insatiable reader, and his knowledge base was legendary. If you
watched Jeopardy with him, you wondered why he wasn’t a contestant; if you
engaged him in a game of Scrabble or Trivial Pursuit, you expected to lose; and
you realized that arguing with him was futile as he was always right about facts
and dates in history, geography, science, sports, and music. We got him a t-shirt
that said ”let’s assume I’m correct, it will save time” – because it was true.
David shared his interest in sports with his daughter Bayley, and they would
debate their Final Four choices each March. During university, David was an avid
concert goer who hosted a late-night radio program and collected the LPs that
lined his apartment walls. He was delighted that his son Zack shared this interest
(as well as an appreciation of South Park), and they engaged in discussions about
all genres of music – his knowledge was encyclopedic. For fun, he solved cryptic
crosswords and played duplicate bridge online with his sister Anne.
It was at the cottage where David was the happiest – boating, tubing, and playing
Euchre and other card & board games with his children, grandchildren, and
lifelong friends the Cottons. He’d share his morning waffles with his grandkids on
his lap with his favourite companion Bruno, the family pug at his side.
Despite numerous medical challenges throughout his life, David continually defied
the odds, displaying a stoic tenacity and determination to live. Unfortunately,
during surgery for Crohn’s Disease in the 1970s, he had received tainted blood and
contracted Hepatitis C, which destroyed his liver and necessitated a transplant.
We were extremely grateful in 2008 when Cindy Cotmen made the generous and
altruistic decision to be a living donor – as a result, David lived to celebrate the
weddings of both his children, the birth of his grandchildren and 15 bonus years at
the cottage. He succumbed to post transplant lympho-proliferative disorder, an
aggressive lymphoma triggered by years of immunosuppressant drugs required to
prevent rejection of his liver transplant.
David will be missed by Jude, his wife of 53 years, his daughter Bayley and sonin-
law Jeff, son Zack and daughter-in-law Ashley, grandchildren Stella and Theo,
sister Anne and brother-in-law Ray, sister-in-law Janet, and nieces Joy and Eve. In
David’s memory, please sign up to be an organ donor (beadonor.ca) and give
blood if you can. If you wish to make a donation, gifts to the Gastrointestinal
Disease Research Unit (GIDRU) through the University Hospital Kingston
Foundation would be appreciated.
Thank you to the staff at KHSC especially on the Connell 10, Kidd 9 and Davies 4
units whose expertise, compassion, and kindness assured us David was receiving
exemplary care. We are grateful for our friends who have supported us during
David’s illness by feeding us, shoveling our driveway, and offering much needed
encouragement.
Plans for a get-together with family and friends will be determined at a later date.
January 30 1951
March 2 2024
Death notice for the town of: Kingston, Province: Ontario
death notice David John Mitchell January 30 1951
March 2 2024
obituaries notice David John Mitchell January 30 1951
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