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1. Pat was the first person I met when I attended Central Police Station to apply for a job as a Cadet in the Spring of 1979. From that day forward I always saw Pat as a wonderful, caring, confident and professional person. It was a pleasure and a privilege to have known Pat. My sincere condolences to Ron and Family.
   Sincerely,
   Glenn Bullock

2. My sincerest condolences to the entire Cruse family. May Pat Rest Peacefully.
   Lisa Bontje

   • The amazing kindness and positivity that Pat generated whenever I met her impacted me and my career at HPS to pay it forward to new employees offering opportunities and believing in them. Her smile was contagious and her true joie de vivre will be remembered forever. My sincere sympathy to her family.
     Kim Chewter

3. Pat will always be in my fondest memories She accepted me into the HR department when I was still in high school for my grade 12 Law class placement She inspired me and encouraged me to apply to the Department as a civilian when I graduated from high school I did She was influential in my hiring and in my career She was always there for me for guidance and advice as I moved into supervisory positions Outside the job she was such a lovely person My mom was very fond of her too as she was a frequent customer at the clothing store my mom worked at Pat always went out of her way to really get to know people What a beautiful person 💜

4. Ron,
   I am saddened to learn of Pat’s passing.
   As you know Pat and I had an awesome relationship and I did truly enjoy my inter actions with her.
   I hope that both you and Mike find peace in knowing that you both shared a wonderful “best friend” and spouse.
   Michael Joy. SC MB

5. Condolences to the family of Pat and her friends of which I am sure there are many. May you be at peace, as you journey to your forever home. RIP. She will be fondly remembered by many.

6. Ron and family
   my deepest condolences to all during this most difficult time.
   pat was a lovely person and a good friend.

   Bruce Elwood

7. To Patricia’s family I extend my deepest sympathy. She was a vibrant beautiful lady. I know the loss you feel must be a great one

8. My deepest condolences to the Cruse family. Pat was instrumental in my hiring at the police dept. I have many fond memories of her but it was always her smile …when she entered a room and greeted you with that warm smile!
   Rest in peace
   Joanne

9. I was surprised to read of Pat’s passing. I worked with Pat in HR which I thoroughly enjoyed. Overseeing sworn and non sworn members and new applications was challenging. Please accept my condolences and by extension to Ron and Mike.

10. Pat was always friendly and helpful. I spoke with her just about every day at headquarters. My sincere sympathy goes to Ron. – Jim Lawton

11. Ron, Jacqui and families,
    So sorry to hear of Pat’s passing. Please accept our sincere condolences. Pat was always approachable and had a quick smile. May your memories of her ease your pain at this difficult time.

    • I’m so sorry for your loss Ron. My heart goes out to you and your family. Stay safe my friend and keep your head up. If you need anything let me know. Tom Standen

12. My condolences to all of Pat’s family and friends. She was always an empathetic, professional, beautiful woman. She was so helpful and kind to me when I started at the Hamilton Police.
    I wish you all laughter amid your tears as you share you many memories of Pat with each other.
    Rosemarie

13. So sorry to hear about Pat’s passing. Was so happy to see her at our Quartet show last fall and we both had a chance to talk with her. That was always a pleasure. Always had an encouraging word and that pretty smile. She was involved in both of us getting hired back in the day!
    Our deepest condolences to Ron, Mike and the entire family. Our thoughts are with you.

14. So sorry to hear of the passing of Pat. She was such an integral part of the Hamilton Police Service and it greatly benefited by her presence and professionalism.
    She always had a smile and a kind word for all she encountered.

    Condolences to Ron and family. I’m sure she will be greatly missed.

15. Ron, Mike & Family:

    Our sincerest condolences on your loss.

    Eve & I were at Pat’s table at the last retiree’s spring luncheon. I hadn’t seen her in years but it was obvious that she was still the vibrant, caring person she had always been. She was a very special lady and will be missed by all who knew her.

    Bob Martin

16. Ron,I was sorry to hear about Pat’s passing. My condolences to you and your family.

    Don Crath

17. Ron, Sandra, Mike and Debbie, and the rest of the Benning and Cruse families.
    Sincere condolences on the passing of Pat. She was a fixture around Central Police Station for so many years and instrumental in hiring process.
    Will always have fond memories of working with her…she was a gem and will be sorely missed.

    Mark and Cindy Nicholls

18. Ron and Family

    I am sadden to hear of the passing of Patricia. My deepest condolences.

19. My condolences to Ron and family. Pat was not only a very competent administrator, she was ALWAYS a wonderful person to be around.

20. My deepest condolences to Ron, Mike, Sandra, Gary and the rest of the Cruse/ Benning family. I’m fortunate to have worked with and socialized with Pat. I will always remember her kindness and welcoming attitude. May she rest in peace.

21. Ron, Mike and family;

    My deepest condolences to you on the passing of Pat. She was always a class act within the department and respected by everyone. Honoured, celebrated and forever remembered in our hearts.

22. I am saddened to learn of Pat’s passing, so soon. To the entire family, and especially Ron, my deepest sympathy.
    Mike

23. I knew Pat from our old Ancaster High School days. It was at a chance meeting when Pat asked if there were openings at the police department. The rest is history. She was so engaging, always with a big smile that invited into her world. Elegant.
    Our deepest condolences to Ron and your family She will truly be missed.
    Dave & Sharon Broom

24. Ron,

    Oh no! Definitely a shocking notification. My heart aches for your loss. Pat was so dear to me. I am grateful about the relationships that were built at HPS. Ours was created very early in my career. As soon as we met, we liked each other right away. Pat was a strong, beautiful and successful Woman. Her smile and laugh will forever stay with me. I am grateful that she was a good Friend and Mentor to me when I needed an ear, or a hug!! Her support meant so much to me.
    I know she knew how much she was respected and admired by me.💕
    May you rest in sweet peace my friend!!!
    My condolences to your Family😔

25. My deepest condolences to Ron and the extended family. I always loved her as a beautiful friend. She always had a smile on her face.
    Mike Webber

26. My condolences to Ron and the Cruse family. I always enjoyed conversations with Pat when I visited the Human Resources. Pat contributed so much to the organization during her time in our HR. I’m sorry to have learned she was ill and that she was taken so early. May she rest in peace.

    Frank Vanderzalm
    HPS retiree

27. My deepest condolences to the Cruse family….Pat was a wonderful lady?

28. Ron, …so pleased to see your choice of a picture to mark Pat’s passing announcement.
    That is the woman I remember so fondly.
    We met when she was working with the Stewart Commission Review of Regional Government in the mid 70’s. Pat was a knowledgeable, compassionate and warm face whenever we met in our later policing roles.
    I shall miss her, as one of the bright lights guiding my career. Be at peace, fair lady.

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