Carmela Civello
August 17, 1929 ~ October 31, 2022
Visitation
Wednesday, November 2, 2022 from 4:00 – 8:00 pm
Holy Cross Catholic Funeral Home
211 Langstaff Road East, Thornhill, ON, L3T 3Z6
Funeral Mass
Thursday, November 3, 2022 at 10:30 am
Chapel of St. Joseph – Holy Cross Catholic Funeral Home
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Entombment
Westminster Cemetery **Arrive at approximately 12:15 pm**
5830 Bathurst Street, North York, ON., M2R 1Y6
Obituary
Carmela Civello age 93, passed peacefully in her sleep surrounded by her loving family at Markham-Stouffville hospital on October 31, 2022. Carmela was born in Modica, Sicily the 3rd cherished child of Raffaela and Orazio Agosta.
Carmela was only 14 when she first laid eyes on our dear father Corrado. She told us all that she knew immediately in that moment that he would be the only man in her life. They eloped and were married in 1949 and she gave birth to twins Margherita and Raffaela the following year. In June 1955, the family bravely emigrated to Canada. She gave birth to her first son Orazio in 1958 and her second son Giorgio in 1966.
Carmela was a very intelligent, progressive, and stylish woman. She was very quick to learn a new language and worked hard as a seamstress in her first job in Canada. She was respected by her peers and management quickly promoted her to a shift manager position. She left the factory and went to work as a dietary aid at East General hospital. She again was quickly promoted to a supervisory role which she held for many years.
Carmela was an excellent mother and wife. She was not only the matron of her own family but also the matron for hers and her husband’s extended families. She was often called on to suppress conflicts with others and was respected for her wisdom and abilities as a peacemaker. In her own family, she was the family treasurer, the best chef, and the best friend and advisor to her husband and children.
She loved to nurture and feed her family. She loved to host any celebration and was always over the top in the quantity and quality of the food she would serve. She would plan, prepare, cook and bake every Christmas, Easter, and Thanksgiving for up to 30 family members.
Carmela loved many things including plants, cats, food, wine, clothes, shoes, sewing, cooking music and singing. She loved people and loved her recently deceased husband Corrado and family above all things.
The family would like to thank all the Palliative Care Drs and nurses at Markham-Stouffville hospital. We would also like to thank the caregivers at Sunrise Senior living. We are extremely grateful to all her home caregivers especially Shereen and Neddie who nurtured and supported her during her 12-year battle with Alzheimer’s disease.
She is survived by her children: Margherita Arangio (nee Civello), Raffaela Caruso (nee Civello), Orazio Civello, Georgio Civello: Grandchildren Nella, Giuseppe, Carmela, Corrado (Caruso), Laura, Michael, Patrick, Corrado (Civello), Nico. Great Grandchildren: Serena, Olivia, Letizia, Isabella, Oscar, Sammy, Violet, Carlo, Charlie, Mia, Sophie and Teo.
In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Alzheimer’s Society. www.alzheimer.ca
14 Messages
Tim Peter Flynn
on November 1, 2022 at 10:28 am
Dear Margaret and family. Please know our thoughts and prayers are with you. I know you are very proud of your mother’s accomplishments and especially of her love for you.
Warmest regards
Tim & Marie Flynn
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Richard & Kathy Schneider
on November 1, 2022 at 11:26 am
Dear Margaret,
May your happy memories of your mother bring you comfort at this sad time. Eternal rest grant unto Carmela, O Lord. Rest In Peace.
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Vera chiefari
on November 1, 2022 at 12:08 pm
To the civello family my deepest condolences of zia passing she was loved by so many never will be forgotten
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Margit
on November 1, 2022 at 1:14 pm
Hi, Margaret! Sending healing prayers and comforting hugs, to you and your entire family! Please know, that you’re in my thoughts, as you go through this difficult time! Your Mom will always be with you; especially, because of the many beautiful and special memories, you shared with each other! My hope is that they will bring you comfort, as you’ve had to say ‘goodbye’ !! God bless and keep you in his loving arms!
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Nicolina Anthony
on November 1, 2022 at 1:28 pm
Sending sincere condolences to all the Civello family for the loss of a cherished Mamma, Nonna, bis-nonna. Her well lived life is an inspiration to all that had the opportunity to know her. Rest in peace dear Carmela with your beloved husband Corrado.
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Maria Carrabba
on November 1, 2022 at 2:53 pm
Dear Margherita,
We all send you our sincere condolences to you all! We hug you with all the love. The words cannot say all… Your mother’s love will stay with you forever.
Melina and her beloved Corrado will live in our hearts forever.
We’ll pray for all you.
Maria, Sara and Angelina
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Jackie Mccullough
on November 1, 2022 at 5:21 pm
I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your dear Mother. My condolences to you and your family ✝️
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Lyn Waldron-Niel
on November 1, 2022 at 8:28 pm
My sincere condolences to you and your family on the passing of your mom. I hope all the joyful memories will be of comfort to you and your family in the days ahead. May she Rest In Peace!
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Ciscily Winkler
on November 1, 2022 at 8:48 pm
Dear Marg and family,
Please accept our deepest condolences as you say farewell to your beloved mother Carmela. May you be comforted with all the love and memories shared.
Love, hugs and peace Marg!
Ciscily and William
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iris mcnulty
on November 1, 2022 at 10:14 pm
Dear Margaret:
What a beautiful testimonial of a full life and one that was well-lived! Your mother’s powerful attributes are a personal inspiration to myself! She was most certainly a community builder and it is such people who made this country great! Her devotion to those around her and her desire for their well-being have definitely left a mark!The torch she carried has lit the way for you, dear Margaret and, that of your family of what it means to live a life of faith, hope and trust in Divine Providence. May you and your family find comfort and hope in the gifts your dear mother leaves behind and the New Life your mother now embarks upon.
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Jane and Bob McClenaghan
on November 1, 2022 at 10:48 pm
To all of you our heartfelt sympathy. She was obviously a remarkable lady and she will always remain alive in your hearts. Now is the time to celebrate the life she enjoyed and the memorable moments you will always treasure.
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Nadia Sofia Segato
on November 2, 2022 at 10:34 am
Dear Margaret, Raffaela, Ray and George,
My deepest and heartfelt condolences to you and your families on the passing of your Beloved mother Carmela. May her love and the incredible legacy of her life be in your hearts always.
Nadia Sofia
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RICHELE SHAFER & DANIEL PEREZ
on November 2, 2022 at 11:25 am
To the Civello family,
On behalf of Daniel and myself. Please accept our deepest sympathies. It is so touching to read about this amazing woman that shone her light on everyone.
Daniel and Richele
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Christine Taylor
on November 2, 2022 at 2:55 pm
Although I did not meet your Mom I’ve heard the wonderful stories from all her siblings
What a role model to live up to !
My condolences to all of you & May peace & great memories bring you comfort
Christine Taylor
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Our most sincere sympathies to the family and friends of Carmela Civello 2022..
Death notice for the town of: Thornhill, Province: Ontario