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Roger Laurent Dallaire 1953 2020

Obituary of Roger Laurent Dallaire
DALLAIRE, Roger Laurent – It is with saddened hearts that we announce the sudden passing of Roger Dallaire at Twin Lakes Village on Tuesday, November 10, 2020 at the age of 67. Beloved son of the late Leo (1997) and Lucille (2019). Dear brother of Lise Comeau, Point Edward, Rose Kitchen, Sarnia and Pat Mayer (Leo), Sarnia. Loving uncle of Melissa Kitchen, Michele Williams (Chad), Denise Mayer (Mark), Matthew Kitchen (Suzannah), Danielle Guzi (John) and Michael Comeau (Sarah). Great-uncle of Jacob, Abbie, Nathan, Tyler, Ryan, Neil, Selvyne, Matthew, Adam and Andrew. A special thank you to his best friends Judi Chalmers, Mary and Jim Tayler who were always there for him, as well as his Parkinson’s family at the Strangway Centre and Ironworks Gym. Roger was an avid fan of the Toronto Maple Leafs, the Detroit Tigers, the Sarnia Sting and loved music. He was the guitarist and singer with many bands during his life. As a young man he performed with Cherry Hill and bandmates Serge Sauve and Ron Gerard; Mirror lmage with Mike Couture and David Needham and Kin Folk with Judi Chalmers, Mike Blackmore, Patti and Dan Belmar. Jamming with his cousins Norm, Phil, Marcel and others was his favorite pastime. For years he played and entertained in Sarnia Nursing Homes with groups like Fire in the Kitchen, The Watson Street Warriors, Rambling River Band and also performed solo. He played in church choirs at St. Edward in Point Edward, Sacred Heart and St. Thomas Aquinas in Sarnia. He also played and sang for years busking in Centennial Park to the enjoyment of passersby. Roger loved his work at United Taxi as a driver and maintenance man for over 30 years. Visitation at the McKENZIE & BLUNDY FUNERAL HOME & CREMATION CENTRE, 431 N Christina St., Sarnia on Friday, November 13, 2020 from 1-3 and 6-8 p.m. Please sign up by clicking this link to go to our invitation page on SignUp.com: signup.com/login/entry/577009604802508039
Due to the restrictions of Covid 19, a private Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at St. Thomas Aquinas Church. Interment Our Lady of Mercy Cemetery. Please note that masks/face coverings are required for those in attendance. As an expression of sympathy friends who wish may send memorial donations to the Parkinson Society, 117-4500 Blakie Rd., London, N6L LG5 or the charity of their choice. Messages of condolence & memories may be left at www.mckenzieblundy.com
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Visitation
1:00 pm – 3:00 pm
Friday, November 13, 2020
McKenzie & Blundy Funeral Home
431 N. Christina St.
Sarnia , Ontario, Canada
(519) 344-3131
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6:00 pm – 8:00 pm
Friday, November 13, 2020
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Sarnia , Ontario, Canada
(519) 344-3131
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  1. Roger Dallaire Todd Cloes

    “Do you hear that!?” I said excitedly to my buddy Vase, “that’s not a radio! That’s real, let’s go!”
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    We were in Camlachie, I was probably seven, Vase would be nine. We were sitting on the raised cement base that secured the tall Shell sign in front of Reid’s Variety and Gas on Old Lakeshore Road. Mrs Reid closed up shop at ten so I’m going to guess it was 9ish.

    Crickets and frogs or the occasional passing car would be all you’d hear at that time of night in Huron Heights in 1971.
    Often Vase and I would buy a pop and sit out front of Reid’s after dark, watching various characters coming and going, getting their cigarettes and gas and whatnot. It was a typical end to most summer days for him and I back then.
    We spent the sunny days on the beach or riding bikes, catching frogs in the ditch, seeing what was going on at Lamrecton Camp, fishing in Perch Creek, building forts and playing with the other kids in Huron Heights, but mostly we hung out with each other.

    When nightfall came neither Vase or I were allowed to go too far from our cottages so we would typically go to the store for a pop and sip it out front below the Shell sign. Finishing our Orange Crush or Root Beers we’d bring the empties back into the store to Mrs Reid and spend the bottle return money on mo-jo’s and black babies.
    Getting on our bikes we’d lazily ride around the narrow gravel road that fronted the summer cottages of Huron Heights for something to do.
    On weekends many cottage owners would have guests so there would be more cars parked on the edge of road and on front lawns.
    We’d ride around and see people gathered around bon fires in backyards, sitting in lawn chairs, on Coleman coolers or log stumps.
    It would typically be hot and humid so out so every screened door and window were open on the cottages. Inside you could glimpse people sitting at kitchen tables playing cards bathed in soft light from hanging swag lamps.
    Surrounded by the din of crickets accompanied by the gentle sound of gravel under our bike tires we’d ride our bikes around lazily chewing on a mo-jo. Punctuating the darkness would be the occasional loud crack of dry wood burning in a fire pit, the murmur of quiet conversations, loud laughter erupting sporadically, and usually the sounds of CKLW from a transistor radio atop a picnic table.

    Part of our night bike cruises included stopping at the top of the wooden stairs that led to the beach. We would lean our bikes on the fence that lined the narrow grass path to the stairs then walk down them and see who might be having a bon fire there. We’d look West towards the street lights in Brights Grove, and East into the pitch blackness, seeing orange glowing bon fires that dotted the shore line all the way to Blue Point. It was so quiet on the beach.

    It was a night just like one of these, Vase and I sitting on our bikes at the top of the beach stairs at the end of Franklin St. We were talking, staring out over the pitch blackness that was Lake Huron dimly lit by the stars when we both heard it. A sudden burst of happy cheers, loud robust voices and some excited hand clapping.
    The clamour was coming from behind us, from a nearby cottage. Listening closer now as the voices and clapping subside a bit a acoustic guitar started ringing out and a guy’s voice started singing along with it.

    Snapping my head towards Vase I said loudly. “Do you hear that!! that isn’t a radio! that’s real!”
    I immediately started backing my bike up turning it around saying “let’s go see, c’mon!”
    We peddled our bikes on the grass path away from the beach stairs following the sound. We didn’t have far to go, just a few cottages from the path on the left was where the music was coming from.
    We stopped our bikes at the edge of the driveway there, while still sitting on our bikes we could hear the guitar and singing much louder and clearer now.
    The playing and singing was so good, I was immediately captivated by it. We sat on our bikes and listened but we couldn’t see the guy who was playing and singing, whoever it was, he was just out of our sight line, around the back corner of the cottage.

    I sat stunned cocking my ear, the playing and singing was good, perfectly matched. The guy was performing modern songs I had heard on the radio and loved, Beatle songs, Monkee’s songs, Elvis songs, I could hardly believe my ears!
    We were kinda inching our way up the driveway closer to hear better and we were watching the people that surrounded this musician we still couldn’t see. The people watching were singing along on the chorus’ of the songs, laughing, clapping their hands and having a riot. When the guy would end a song they would call out different song requests joyfully and loudly and he knew every song they wanted and would start right into one to cheers.
    The people watching were having so much fun, they were laughing and talking all at once in both French and English, enjoying drinks, singing and just generally having one hell of a good time.
    A smiling man that I recognized as someone my Dad called Leo started coming up the driveway towards us. “Hi guy’s! You wanna hear the music? come on!” he said waving us in.
    “Yes! Thank you!” I blurted out. I got off my bike and laid it right down on the driveway, I started towards the sound of that guitar and voice. Rounding the back corner of the cottage we stopped and stood quietly behind the people sitting at the back in their lawn chairs.

    There was the guy playing, Roger Delaire, I didn’t know it was Roger then, but there he was holding his guitar, slightly hunched over it, looking at his hand on the neck, strumming with the other hard and precisely, singing out loudly and beautifully. Wow.
    Roger was seated on a wooden bench, He never hesitated on a chord or a word in the songs he was playing, it came out deliberately and confidently from beginning to end. Roger smiled widely in between singing the words, bobbing his head unconsciously keeping time, the joy he was sharing with everyone with his performance just kept coming in waves. I don’t think I blinked the whole time I watched him.

    His played so good that it looked like magic to me then, some kind of trick, like a rabbit out of a hat, how is he doing that?? I was mesmerized, it made me instantly feel happy and the feeling stayed with me with every song he played.
    I had never seen anything like it yet in my short lifetime, sure on TV I had seen guitar players, but this was live, right in front of me, it was real. Up to this point I thought musicians who could play like that fell from the sky, not live on the next street over.
    Vase and I stood watching Roger play seven or eight songs in a row, he never stopped for long , just starting right into another one that was requested the loudest.

    Not knowing for sure, but sensing it was time for me to be home, Vase and I quietly left as the party carried on. Riding away on our bikes I could still hear Roger’s voice singing and guitar playing slowly fade as we got further away.
    My ears strained to hear him play one more song, and I still do.
    Rest and play in peace Roger.
    Todd Cloes



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