It is with great sadness that we announce the sudden passing of our sweet angel, Christine (Christy) Fakner, at her group home in the caring arms of her support staff.
Beloved and cherished daughter of Mary and John Fakner (predeceased), precious granddaughter of Agneta Gogesch (predeceased), adored sister of Kathy Matthews (Gord), and Mary Jones (Don), loving aunt of Kevin Jones and Steven Jones (Danielle), and fondly remembered niece and cousin of her relatives in Germany.
Christy was our gift from God. Her spiritual, kind and gentle way was a blessing to behold. Loved immensely by us, and her friends, for her laughter and silliness, great big smile, and ever readiness to tease others, especially her much loved sisters, Mary and Kathy.
A determined adult woman, born with developmental delays and autism, Christy was lovingly protected and shielded throughout her life, as if she were a child. She showed her huge love for her family with abundant kisses and hugs, holding hands, cuddling or dancing in our arms. Christy and her family eagerly awaited for Sunday to come as we looked forward to the day at home. Your absence, honey leaves a huge hole within our hearts that can never be replaced.
Christy had few inhibitions. She greeted everyone with a gentle friendly voice, great big smile, and enjoyed being the centre of attention. Laughing, dancing, singing, clowning around, writing or painting and making crafts filled her days. Although her autism could cause anxieties, Christy was supported to enjoy a full life, filled with favourite outdoor activities (boating, fishing, swimming and going for walks), and being out in the community to attend different functions and gatherings (church, concerts, theatre and dances).
The suddenness, of her passing is heartbreaking to all by whom she was loved, but we know that God’s angels are only lent for a little while. We take comfort in knowing God called you Christy, to join mom and dad’s, and grandma’s outstretched arms. They’re holding you tightly now, rest peacefully honey, watch over us. Kisses until we can meet with you again.
A private service will be held on Wednesday January 20, 2021 at 2 pm. Those wishing to view the service may do so on the MacCoubrey Funeral Home website.
A special thank you to the many support staff at her Maplewood Christian Horizons group home, Community Living West Northumberland Workshop for their tireless and caring support throughout Christy’s life.
Thank you to Dr. Becker, Dr. Emery and the nursing staff at NHH Emergency department, who demonstrated compassionate care, the Fire Department, EMS, Dr. Kwok, and the numerous supporters and advocates who had positive impacts throughout Christy’s life.
Those wishing to honour Christy’s memory in lieu of flowers may make a donation in her name to Christian Horizons Maplewood House or Northumberland Hills Hospital.
2021
Nos plus sincères sympathies à la famille et aux amis de Christine Rose
Fakner 2021..
Décès pour la Ville:Cobourg, Province: Ontario