À la mémoire de
Cathryn Bernice Dajka
27 novembre 1959 –
27 janvier 2022
We are heartbroken to announce the loss of our amazing Cathryn, passing away in the arms of her loving husband of 25 years, Jim Pauk, and surrounded by her family. Born in Fonthill, Cathryn was pre-deceased by her parents, Stephen and Alice Dajka and is survived by her brothers Bryan (Marina), Stephen (Kristen) and Glen. A magical aunt to Karley, Sydney, Jacob, Anandi, Lyndsay, Jasmine (Alex) and Jade. Great aunt to Ava and Theo. Cathryn faced a devastating diagnosis head on with stoicism and positivity, living her last two years to the fullest. They were, in her words, the two happiest years of her life. She constantly stated how blessed she was to be surrounded by such loving and supportive family and friends, even in her last few days.
After spending years in Toronto as a fashion stylist, Cathryn moved to Jamaica for a year and a half and, after returning, went on to found Frock and Imelda, two fashion boutiques on Roncesvalles Ave. in Toronto’s West end where she and Jim shared a home. She also co-founded a boutique called Ubu on the same street in the 1980’s. A trailblazer in every sense, she led by example, stepping out of the house every morning in audacious outfits that were always garnering attention and wearing them so well. She was a fashion icon, much younger than her years.
She had a knack for bringing people together. Many friendships began and continue due to the environment she created. Cathryn’s kindness and generosity made an impact on all the people in her community and beyond. Her inspiration and mentorship led to several of her employees following in her footsteps and going on to run their own shops. The personal friendships that she made there throughout the years are some of the strongest.
Although a fashionista, Cathryn didn’t shy away from roughing it while portaging and camping when not spending time at her and Jim’s family cottage on Kawagama Lake in Haliburton. She was a star at hula hooping, tether ball and tennis (sort of). She and Jim also enjoyed exotic destinations as well as long road trips.
Cathryn’s nurturing nature was evident, not only with her friends but when caring for her parents in their later years. Not having children of her own gave her the opportunity to build loving bonds with the children of friends and neighbours. She was Auntie Cathryn to many. She loved children and they loved her back.
Beautiful, beautiful Cathryn. You are a light that still shines. You are one special person and have had an impact on so many people’s lives, they’ve told us so. You’re leaving a void in our lives that is unfillable. Wherever it is you’re going, you’re going to shake it up.
Cathryn is someone that needs to be celebrated in a big way and we will do that when we can, so stay tuned. In the meantime, there will be a private gathering with family this Monday afternoon, January 31st, at the Yorke Chapel of Turner and Porter on Bloor Street West. In Lieu of flowers please consider a donation to the Moorelands Camp Starry Summer Night campaign to help send a disadvantaged kid to camp in Cathryn’s memory or to the cancer charity of your choice.
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Our most sincere sympathies to the family and friends of Cathryn Bernice Dajka 27 novembre 1959
27 janvier 2022..
turner & porter funeral directors
Death notice for the town of: Toronto, Province: Ontario