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Sheila Shanks Smith Sunday December 29th 2019

Sheila Shanks (née Smith), long time Brockville resident died unexpectedly on December 29, 2019 at the age of 93 just hours after being admitted to Brockville General Hospital.
Sheila is survived by her five children Susan (Tony), Charles (Linda), Alistair (Rhonda), Gavin (Heather), and Duncan (Sue), as well as her twelve grandchildren, Sandro, Emilie, Alexandre, Marc, Harlan, Evan, Owen, Bridget, Kirsti, Emma, Nicole, and Allison. She often said the thing of which she was the proudest is her family.
When Sheila held forth on politics or literature or the arts, she was hard to ignore. A quick wit, a broad smile and an infectious laugh made it all too seductive, not to mention her lilting accent from the Orkney Islands in northern Scotland.
She always said she led a charmed life but that wasn’t the way she felt as a young girl, the youngest in a close family of five. For a 16-year-old in Kirkwall in 1942, in the midst of the Second World War, Orkney was just too small to contain her imagination.
The war offered her an exit when she turned 18 in 1944 and off she went to London to join the Women’s Royal Naval Service (WRENS). Two and a half years of training and mainly domestic chores somewhat dampened her enthusiasm for the lights of the big city, and when the war ended, she moved to Aberdeen, Scotland to enroll in Teachers’ College. There she encountered the love of her life, a young medical student named John Shanks — the son of the Dean of her women’s residence, Pearl Henderson Shanks.
After a three-year courtship and engagement, they married in Bahrain in the Persian Gulf where John was posted by the Royal Air Force for his military service after his studies. There Sheila found exotic excitement well beyond what she yearned for in Orkney. When John’s posting ended, they decided to emigrate to Canada where there was a great need for doctors, especially in the West, in rural Alberta. Sheila did not suspect they were in for some ‘excitement’ of a very different order.
The tiny town of Provost, Alberta in 1950 in the middle of the flat Prairie was an eye-opener for Sheila after the more urban settings of the UK and the Middle East. Mud streets, outhouses and honey wagons, not to mention the shockingly cold winters were what she had unknowingly signed up for, along with the arrival of three babies Susan, Charles, and Alistair over the course of the next six years. John on the other hand was so desperately needed at the local hospital it left him little time to notice the change in scenery.
By 1957 both Sheila and John had had enough, and they fled back to Scotland so that John could train to become a full-fledged obstetrician and gynecologist. The next several years were spent hopscotching around the UK — Cardiff, Wales; Weymouth, England; Aberdeen, Scotland as John collected the qualifications he needed, while Sheila gave birth to two more children, Gavin and Duncan.
At that point, in 1964 with five hungry mouths to feed, they decided their retreat from the New World had been a bit hasty and that if they moved to a more established part of Canada, such as Ontario, then their future would be much brighter. So, they packed up everyone including the family dog and sailed off on the Empress of Canada back across the Atlantic Ocean to settle in Ontario. After an exploratory year in Windsor they chose Brockville as the place they would plant their flag, make a living and raise their family.
Sheila became what was then known as a ‘remedial teacher’ for several years in charge of a full class of children with a mix of learning disabilities and behavioural challenges. Her colleagues were always impressed at her skill in being able to quiet them and move them forward in learning despite all their many challenges.
Small-town Ontario suited Sheila and John and their years there were happy and productive as they watched their children grow and head out into the world. When not working they loved sailing on the magnificent St. Lawrence river, gardening, amateur theatre, and of course entertaining — always surrounded by friends.
In 2005, Sheila’s beloved husband of 55 years died. She took it in stride saying she was lucky to have had all the years she had with him. She lived on, surrounded by loyal friends in her apartment community and beyond, who enjoyed her grace, buoyant spirit, quick wit, and broad interests.
A voracious reader, she followed those interests while burning through books. Crossword puzzles were a snap. She enjoyed singing in the wonderful choir of St. Peter’s Anglican Church, (now St. Lawrence Anglican Church) saying it was the best kind of high imaginable. She was also active in both book and knitting clubs.
Here are two comments from her club members:
 » was indeed a special person. She was a force to be reckoned with and as you can appreciate had some pretty definite ideas regarding our reading materials at the book club. We even re-read Middlemarch to appease her one summer! » (Jean Macintosh)
« We knitters and readers shall miss Sheila’s acute observations on music, Scotland history, politics, child raising, not so much regarding knitting;) » (Susie Dumbrille)
Blessed with a gregarious and unflagging spirit, not to mention an infectious laugh, she was fearless and knew how to wield a sharp tongue when necessary. To her children and others, she was a role model and an inspiration. In recent years she demonstrated exactly how to age gracefully.
Sheila was fiercely independent and sharp-witted right to the end. She died saying ‘her life had been blessed and it was time to go.’
Sheila’s body rests at the Irvine Funeral Home in Brockville where it will be cremated. The funeral to be held in St. Lawrence Anglican Church, Brockville has been postponed until a future date when her youngest son is healthy enough to travel after an operation.
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If you wish to be informed directly when the funeral date is fixed, send a request to cshanks@golden.net
In lieu of flowers, please make donations to the University of Ottawa Heart Institute using the link below.
Condolences and stories can be shared on the memory wall above.
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