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GRAHAM Patricia Ann nee McLaren January 9 1933 – October 4 2019

GRAHAM, Patricia Ann (née McLaren)
January 9, 1933 – October 4, 2019
Patricia was born January 9, 1933 in
Melfort, Saskatchewan to Elizabeth Ruth Reid and William Herbert McLaren. Her
mother’s family were milliners (hat makers) and on her father’s side were a
founding family of Métis Quebec.
Patricia grew up on a Saskatchewan
farm and her love of animals started immediately with farm animals cared for
like her dolls. Patricia was the
youngest of thirteen children. She was the remaining survivor of this generation. The McLaren Clan visted frequently and
included Ontario’s Doris, Lois, Nancy, Lillian, Betty and Alan; Saskatchewan’s
Margaret, Hugh, and Helen; Alberta’s Bill and Merle with Herb in British Columbia.
By the time Patricia was a teenager
both of her parents had passed away and she sped off in her Renault and headed
to find her fortune in the Yukon. Her first career of hair styling and small
business owner took her from Whitehorse, Vancouver, Vancouver Island and to
Orangeville with opening hair salons with her sister Betty.
While in Drumheller with her sister,
Merle, Patricia met a cowboy named Bill Graham. Together,
in 1963, they rode off into the sunset and headed up north. This was the start
of a horse and cattle ranch near the northern Alberta community of Smith, along
the banks of the Athabasca River.
Patricia and Bill’s strong pioneering spirit enabled them to endure no
electricity, no running water and many acres to clear. Together they raised two
daughters, Patty Dawn and Lori-Jo to be fiercely independent like them.
Patricia had a real affinity to Smith
and its people. Smith was recognized as the volunteer capital of Alberta and
Patricia took that to heart. She helped found the Smith School soup lunch
program so hungry students could have a hot meal. She was a caring parent
volunteer for school trips throughout the province. She was a baker of the beloved
by all Haystack cookies.
With Patricia’s love of horses, she
become an avid and skilled horse rider. On the ranch, she herded and trailed
cattle and drove a team of heavy horses to feed cattle round bales. Patricia
and Bill were natural and sustainable ranchers, long before this agricultural
practice had a name. She was a movie extra in the Hollywood film, Silence of
the North partly filmed at their ranch.
Patricia won trophies and ribbons for gymkhanas, horse shows, endurance rides and
rodeo events. She was the horse and
bench show conveyor. She created the lawn and garden contest and helped
establish the chilli cook-off. The Patricia Plate Horse Race was named in her
Patricia’s fellowship was important to
her. She was President of the Anglican Church Women, church organist and a
Sunday School teacher. Lemon pledge wafted in the air from the hours of
polishing the beautiful wood of Church of the Good Shepherd. We often had quilts in the middle of our living room surrounded by ACW
ladies’ quilting bee.
Patricia was an active member of the
Legion and Half Century Plus Club. She won prizes in bowling, curling,
shuffleboard, and darts competitons across the province. She was the editor of
the Smith Hondo Community Gazette. She loved community dances and took square
dancing lessons.
Patricia’s volunteering and strong
community ties culminated in being named the Smith Hondo Citizen of the Year.
After Patricia’s husband Bill passed
away in 1990, she had fortitude to run the ranch on her own for many years. In 1998,
she realized her dream of having an acreage with an outstanding mountain view
along the Cowboy Trail in southern Alberta. This is where she built a home, gardens and
corrals to enjoy her retirement years.
Patrica had an artistic flair and
could have hosted her own Home and Garden show.
She had stunning flower and rock gardens. She loved to paint murals. She
tiled her own bathrom and crafted tin and wood doors. When we walked through
the door there often was a refreshed look to the house. She passed on her love
of sewing and knitting to her grandchildren.
Patricia lived
and breathed sports. She bled green for the Saskatchewan Roughriders. She
worshipped the Montreal Canadiens. She had apps following all of her teams on
her smart phone. She delighted in attending live sporting events and cheering
on so nervously Lancaster to Encarnacion to
Shapovalov to Howard to Big Ben.
Patricia was tough as nails. She never
owned a winter coat or boots. She fed cattle in -40s temperatures. She
caddyshacked gophers. She could be covered in dirt from the field and then
dress herself to the nines for an event showcasing a fabulous hat and dyeing
her own boots to match her ensemble.
Patricia loved to go to the theatre
and music concerts. She saw Charlie Pride many times. She took great pleasure
that Ian Tyson lived on a ranch down the road. Her favourite song was Amanda by
Don Williams. She loved the Royal Family and never missed an episode of
Cornation Street.
Patricia took a keen interest in naturopathic medicine. She practised reflexology and reiki on herself and the family. In her bag of tricks of natural cures she had poultices to chamomile tea. Patricia relished the outdoors and enjoyed walking on the Friendship Trail. She never took an elevator and no amount of flights of stairs were ever too daunting. She was so strong and would amaze her grandchildren by halfing an apple with her bare hands. She was so active and always up to play games from Telestrations to baseball to bocce ball.
Patricia loved Canada from sea to sea
to sea and visited all provinces and one territory. She was a champion for the
underdog. She taught her family to respect and stand up for all people. She saw
perfection in the imperfect. She was always there with a helping hand and a
kind word. She was generous and quite literally would give the shirt off her
back. She gave the most one of a kind gifts. Her smile lit up the room. People
gravitated to her and she was just plain fun to be around. If the battle to pay
the restaurant bill was an Olympic sport, she would win a gold medal every
Right up until Patricia’s last days she was tackling a barb wire fence. She had cows in the pasture. Her acres of lawn were mowed to the envy of any Major League Baseball club.
Patricia passed away peacefully on
October 4, 2019 surrounded by her family.
Zachary, Grace, Emmett, Kyra and
Taylor are so blessed to have this amazing person as their grandmother and they
adored her. She was their comfort and their cheerleader.
Mom is the light of our lives. She
made us stronger, kinder, and wiser. Her love envelopes us. It is an honour to have her as our beautiful
sweet mom. You take the high road and we
will take the low road … till we meet again.
A family graveside service was held on
October 16, 2019 at Foothills Cemetery. Mom was laid in her final resting spot
here on earth on a lovely hill overlooking a spectacular view of the valley
with cows in the field. The sun was shining down on a perfect autumn day.
All family and friends are invited to
attend a Celebration of Patricia’s Life at a picnic next summer.
Arrangements entrusted to Cochrane Country Funeral Home, Florence (Flo) Simpson, Funeral Director. Ph: 403-932-1039.

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